How to Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back Written on February 24, 2010, by Dale Brunet.
Getting dumped is no fun at all, and right now, you’re feeling hurt and rejected. Your first impulse is to get your ex back by any means necessary, but before you do that, do yourself a favor and stop and think for a second. Do you WANT them back? Were you happy with them? Are they really that great of a catch?
That said, if you’ve made up your mind, read on…
First Step: Get Out of the House and On A Date
Date someone besides your ex. Whether or not you strike gold on your first try, the whole point is in proving to yourself that you’ve still got it. You’re still an attractive, lovable person, and the world doesn’t begin and end with the ex. You’ve got options. Plus, this gets your mind off of your ex and lets you think straight for a moment. It’s hard to get your emotions in check, but a date with a gorgeous gal should do the trick and kick start your heart.
Step Two: Give Her A Call
If you still think it might be worth trying to work it out, buy them a cup of coffee at your favorite coffee shop and talk it out. Maybe your problems are surmountable, maybe they’re not, but you won’t really understand each other until you’ve had a conversation about it. Don’t tell them they’re wrong, hear them out. If they’re blaming everything they can on you, then they’re crazy and you don’t need that kind of drama in your life. On the other hand, if they’re as receptive to your complaints as you are to theirs, and if you can both agree that you still like each other, maybe consider this meeting to be your Rambo date… You know… “First Date Part Two”.
Step Three: Come to a Mutual Agreement
Getting together again only works if the vote is unanimous. If they’re not interested, leave it at that. Wish them luck and go home and look forward to an uncertain but certainly bright future. On the other hand, if you both agree that it might be time to try to work it out, proceed with caution. Don’t jump right back in to living together again. Rather, start over from scratch, treat them like a new person. The key problem in long term relationships is when you come to a point where you don’t really know each other anymore, so try to find out if this new them is still someone you can love and take it one date at a time… And keep your options open. Nobody says you have to go steady right away.
What’s most important is that, before doing any of this, you spend a little bit of time single just to remind yourself that YOU are the source of your own happiness. Get your head and your heart in the right place, and then think about giving it another shot.
Want to find out more ways toget your ex back, then visit Dale Brunet’s Blog on how to choose the best tools to help you get your girlfriend back for your needs.
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